my father died 13 years ago today.. the same day as my eldest child was born 8 years before.

[seenitallbefore2012]

So many sad and traumatic memories from that sudden death but as time has eased the wounds, the memories I carry now are of the kind, intelligent, gentle,wise wonderful man who brought me up in a happy childhood.. always there to advise, console and just chat.
I miss you still dad but am so grateful for the time I had with you and the values you taught me, I hope you are resting and looking over me from above xxxxxxxx

[IcanandIwill]

Lovely post. I've recently lost my wonderful husband and your words have given me hope. Sending you love.

[seenitallbefore2012]

Thankyou Ican. I hope time will ease the pain for you.

I hope my dad has good company , peace, good health, and joy in his unique heaven .
I hope if he sees me struggle sometimes [atm], he realises that I am still myself, still idealistic and hopeful and will cope x

[IcanandIwill]

I'm sure he will. Sounds to me like he would be very proud of you.