My friend just rang me. Her 9 month old DD died on saturday. A form of pnewmonia (sp?) that was constantly misplaced by doctors as a chest infection. DD was given anti biotics on all times of being taken to the doctors & after each course of anti biotics she was fine for 3-4 days. All i could do was cry & constantly apologised to my friend. I dont know what else to do or say. I've never been faced with this before & never thought i would. I told her id be here for her whenever she needs me & that she has done nothing wrong & musnt blame herself but i dont feel like thats enough. Obviously ill go to the funeral too. Me & another friend are going to try & see her next week (She lives 30-35 mins away so we dont see her often but do keep in close contact) I hope that will help a little but i just wish i could take it all away from her & say i'll deal with it for you. But i cant. I wish i could bring her DD back so i wouldnt have had the call i would have had the exciting call to tell me she has another tooth! But i cant.
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Emmielu · 26/04/2012 21:25
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