Hi all. I teach Year 1 in our local primary school and have a little girl in my class aged 5 who's mum has just lost her baby girl at 24 weeks. Her waters broke last week and she was in hospital but the baby sadly died this week. I am not sure whether she was delivered or died before she was born. Her aunty brought her to school yesterday and told me the news but said the little girl hadn't been told yet. She is a bubbly little girl but also very sensitive. She was missing her mum a lot as she was in hospital and yesterday every time she said how much she missed her mum my heart was breaking for her. She has no idea what is to come. I am not at work today as my own dd is poorly but I'm so worried about this little girl if she comes in having to be with a supply teacher. She was so excited about being a big sister, knew what her sister's name was going to be and will be so devastated. She has two older brothers and I think she was looking so forward to having another girl.
I just wondered if anyone had any advice about how best I can help this poor little girl deal with her loss. Obviously I don't know how the family will deal with it - whether she will see her sister, go to the funeral etc but I feel that as her teacher I am partly responsible for helping her. I will obviously tell her she can talk about her sister whenever she wants to, to come and find me if she is upset and that it is ok to be upset. I thought about maybe giving her a book to write or draw in if she wants to express her feelings or maybe write to her sister. Any other suggestions would be so welcome. Thanks.
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AbbyLou · 09/02/2012 08:15
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