Hi all
I haven't posted on MN for a long time for various reasons - time, logistics, ability to muster the strength etc etc. Anyway, I wanted to say hi to everyone and also thanks to anyone who thought of the boys and I during the past year.
The past year has been difficult and a roller coaster in many ways and I am trying very hard to settle into a 'new normal' and find a different life that we are able to live now. It has been a hard year with lots of emotions and lots of dynamics shifting between family and friends (something which is very hard to deal with) and also lots of painful milestone dates and so on. Coping strategies and lists have been helpful, although that hardly sounds the easiest way to live your life I realise! Sadly it is the reality though.
The boys have settled back into a routine and Stanley has just begun school (happy but sad about that), they are very well adjusted given the circumstances and I am throwing lots of energy into them and keeping doing some interesting things for us all.
So, every day is still a challenge and every day has very sad times and at times I feel I am still a very sad person about what has happened. I think that is normal. Where life was less complex and simple it has become something that needs constant thought, planning and consideration - knowing what will work for me and the boys has been an important lesson and helps me get through the trickier times.
Again, thanks everyone for responding to my initial post and best wishes to everyone.
TCG
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TheConstantGardener · 04/10/2011 10:06
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