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Thinking of all you grieving mummy's xx

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Amyjade · 12/12/2005 12:14

Thinking of everyone who has lost a child/baby who is dealing with christmas without them.

This is our first christmas without our little girl Freya she would be 2 years 4 months old now and we know she would have loved christmas this year.
I am finding it all so hard to deal with as sadness just fills my heart that my little girl is missing out on a time of year which is ment for children and that would have made her so happy.

This time of year just brings it home the devestation of losing a child whatever age.

Remembering Freya 3/9/03- 16/4/05
Forever in our hearts baby girl xxxxxxxxxx

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snowfalls · 12/12/2005 12:15
Sad
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NewBethlehemGirlwithsparkles · 12/12/2005 12:16

{{{Hugs}}} to you.

xx

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tamba · 12/12/2005 12:26

your post made me cry

I am so so sorry for your loss xxxxxxx

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MARINAtivityPlay · 12/12/2005 12:29

Amyjade, you have my utmost sympathy. This is a very, very hard time for us all, I agree. Freya is just a month younger than our dd, who brought hope back to us after our second child was prematurely stillborn.
Sending you lots of love XXX

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handlemecarefully · 12/12/2005 12:43

Amyjade,

This must be a really tough time of year for you. So sorry for all the pain that you are enduring.

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foundintransleightion · 12/12/2005 12:45

Amyjade, so very sorry.
Your posts have spurred me into going and getting the Prevenar for ds.

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Hulababy · 12/12/2005 12:46

Thinking of you all in this situation.

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SackAche · 12/12/2005 13:59

So so sad... cannot begin to imagine.

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triplets · 12/12/2005 21:52

So sorry Amyjade, there is nothing I can say that will make it any easier. This is my 12th Christmas without my darling Matthew, he was 14 when he died. Oh how I miss him, miss us two doing the tree together, letting him be the first to switch the lights on, watching his lovely eyes sparkle at the magic of it, its still so incredibly painful. Going to the shops, trying to find him a card to take to the cemetery, all jolly saying happy Christmas, all seem so wrong, hes not here.On Saturday my brother made me bawl my eyes out. He gave me a bag, a present he said, I opened it up and inside were 4 china angels for the Christmas tree, one with Matthew on, one Rebecca, one Thomas and one James. He said he had seen them last year and could get all the names except for Matthew, so he didnt buy them because he couldn`t get the trios without Matthews, I just held that angel and cried. Its hard every day, missing him, but it truly is so painful at this time of the year. So I will think of you Amyjade and your beautiful Freya.......much love xxx

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HarkTheHeraldAIMSMUMsings · 12/12/2005 21:56

So sorry for everyone grieving at this time of year

Triplets, that was lovely of your brother.

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Hulababy · 12/12/2005 21:57

Triplets - what a lovely gift from your brother.

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SnowQueenVictoria · 12/12/2005 21:59

thinking of you all

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triplets · 12/12/2005 22:00

Yes, I hadn`t seen them, they really are very special, but sad........

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Amyjade · 12/12/2005 22:06

I have two pixie tree decorations with Freya and Libby on them they are very special.
We couldn't believe it that we found one with Freya's name as it's not a commen name so i was chuffed when i found it.

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