I started a thread on Am I being unreasonable regarding how I am behaving towards my friends and how they are in turn reacting to my grief. I daren't read it as I got such a pasting so I thought I'd have more support on this topic. You might know my mum has two months to live thread.
I spend yesterday with my terminally ill mum and it broke my heart to see her suffer so asking my dad to let her die etc. I am already grieving and I am so angry and bitter that she is leaving us in this way and so young.
One of my good mates lost her dad about 10 years ago but yesterday she was pressurising me into getting out a library book and I just snapped. She then said ''I know grief''. I just feel upset as I thought if she knows grief she's empathise a bit more. Of course I know I am being unreasonable but I just don't want anyone to make excessive demands on me right now. I just want everyone to bog off. They have their mums and soon i won't. Anyone else feel irationally angry and are your friends at a loss how to act or what to say. Very lonely isn't it?
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toptramp · 08/06/2011 17:40
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