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for thefirstMrsDeVere

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Longtime · 27/04/2011 00:00

Thinking of you, your darling dd and your family today. (((((hugs)))))

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changingmynameagain · 27/04/2011 00:08

I am as well.

Billie was beautiful.

Your bravery makes me feel inadequate.

You are in my thoughts.

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 27/04/2011 00:10

Please please can you absorb all our thoughts and hold them close to you to help you through today.

I am thinking about your Billie today.

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Maryz · 27/04/2011 00:42

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madhattershouse · 27/04/2011 00:44

Thinking of you MrsDeVere. Wishing you all the best on this sad anniversary Sad

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insertfunnynicknamehere · 27/04/2011 01:00

I don't know you but read your beautiful post on another thread. I really genuinely cried for you and your loss. You were both equally lucky to have each other, a wonderful mother and daughter no doubt.
I'm not in the uk but ill find out how to donate to those charities on her behalf.
Ill think of ye tomorrow and don't forget if you need it, you will have the whole of MN to support you.

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confuddledDOTcom · 27/04/2011 01:13

Thinking of you too.

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ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 27/04/2011 01:34

I can't believe another year has passed...

What are your plans for today?

Lots of love & hugs
xoxx

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eastendmummy · 27/04/2011 02:12

Thinking of you - the way you speak about your daughter and all of your children is beautiful. Wishing you strength on this difficult day x

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Longtime · 27/04/2011 08:33

I remember thinking last year that it was so sad, Mrs D, that you didn't get the support in RL you deserved. I hope you know there are many on here who are thinking of you today x

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ReindeerBollocks · 27/04/2011 09:09

Thinking of you and your family today MrsDeVere. I hope you take some small comfort in Billie's garden and remember all the beautiful, wonderful things about her (of which I am sure there are many) x

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DamnItJanet · 27/04/2011 09:10

Thinking of you, huge hugs, be kind to yourself xxxxx

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BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 27/04/2011 11:05

Thinking of you and your family........

I hope you have lots of support and hugs today

God bless you all xx

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kuckingfunt · 27/04/2011 11:43

Thinking of you and your family Mrs D.

Billie was indeed a beautiful girl and your bravery amazes me. The words you use when you speak about her show just how much you love and miss her.

Take care and be kind to yourself today.

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deemented · 27/04/2011 11:47

I'm sending much love too, MrsD

Even after her death, Billie continues to touch many peoples lives, and that's because of you, her wonderful Mum.

Loves you, missus x

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HerHighnessTheWestCoastLotus · 27/04/2011 16:20

Well shoot, I just saw this - I'd put today on my calendar, MrsDV, and posted a thread for you before seeing that someone else had done so as well (which makes me very happy).

Thinking of you and your DD. Here, have the biggest tightest ((((((((((((HUG))))))))) you could imagine.

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5GoMadOnAZ650 · 27/04/2011 16:25

Thinking of you and your family today Xxx

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HerRoyalHighnessPrincessCervix · 27/04/2011 16:25

Thinking of you, your family and especially Billie.

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OpheliaBumps · 27/04/2011 16:35

I'm thinking of you too MrsD. Your Billie sounds so lovely, I love to hear your stories about her, you both sound like such strong people.

Wishing you more strength to get through today, and sending you much love xxx

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thefirstMrsDeVere · 28/04/2011 19:45

Thank you so much. I wasnt on MNs much yesterday so missed this lovely thread.

Its so touching and means such a lot.

I did have a nice day yesterday but it was so incredibly hard. The only way I get through is to distract myself if I am honest.

I just cannot think about the reality because it is so unbelivable and so traumatic.
Its so kind of you all to think of me and my Billie.
There are so many like me, you wouldnt know us if you passed us in the street. Living without our children.

Thank you again, you nest of vipers you Wink

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ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 28/04/2011 22:21

TFMD - I'm glad you found things to distract yourself with. Everyone copes in different ways and all you can do is get through the day as best you can.

Distraction is my method of coping too - hence spending far too much time on MN!

The reality is unbelievable, unfair and incredibly sad :( With all the love on MN for you and Billie, if wishing could make it so, she would be here with you x

It's almost a shame we don't have things tattooed on our foreheads isn't it... we might all be that much kinder to each other if we knew what we were each dealing with. Of course - some would just have 'smug twat' which would be helpful because we could slap them around the chops with a wet lettuce leaf to vent some frustration!!

Much love
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Maryz · 28/04/2011 22:27

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ilovesprouts · 28/04/2011 22:27

thinking of you too x

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bibbitybobbityhat · 28/04/2011 22:39

Its quite true what deemented said: I feel very honoured to have "known" Billie, even just a tiny bit, through you, Mrs.

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hester · 28/04/2011 22:43

Much love to you, and with Billie in our thoughts and our hearts..xx

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Longtime · 28/04/2011 23:36

So glad you found some comfort in this thread MrsD. We can do nothing to lighten your pain but I wanted you to know that we are thinking of you xx

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