My baby girl was stillborn on 28th feb

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janedoe25 Sat 12-Mar-11 16:26:07

MY baby girl Zoe was stillborn 2 weeks ago, we had her funeral yesterday. Today i feel like i cant cope, i miss her so much i never knew it was possible to feel so much pain and hurt. Im a bit lost just now, i cant eat or sleep my DF is too busy worrying about me to grieve for himself. I just dont know what to do.

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PotteringAlong Sat 12-Mar-11 17:05:36

I couldn't let you go unanswered.

I'm so very very sorry about your lovely daughter; sorry that you didn't get to spend more time with her.

There is a thread in berevement for people whose children are not here with them anymore and they are, i know, wonderfully supportive of anyone who needs them - they pop up on threads here there and everywhere but I know thye have their own special thread.

I'll try and link to it, but go and see them and I'm sure they will be far more practical

PA x

expatinscotland Sat 12-Mar-11 17:06:46

I'm so sorry.

PotteringAlong Sat 12-Mar-11 17:06:57

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/bereavement/1139804-Precious-memories-of-all-our-beloved-children-gone-too-soon-but-they-will-live-on-forever-in-our-hearts

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SilveryMoon Sat 12-Mar-11 17:08:28

I am so sorry you didn't have more time with Zoe. I cannot begin to imagine how you must be feeling sad

chimchar Thu 17-Mar-11 06:59:09

i'm so sorry to hear about your little girl, zoe. i have no advice, but sending you much strength and warmth. x

MmeLindt Thu 17-Mar-11 07:10:56

So sorry, Jane.

shmoz Thu 17-Mar-11 07:18:11

So sorry to hear this, I can't imagine what you must be going through.

Have you thought about contacting SANDS?

http://www.uk-sands.org/

I have no rxperience myself, but I understand that they are excellent.

xx

ben5 Thu 17-Mar-11 07:24:32

sorry to hear about Zoe. can offer nothing but a hug and a prayer to you.

TooImmature2BMum Fri 18-Mar-11 17:44:25

My baby Thea was stillborn on Sunday. I don't think it's really sunk in yet. I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone.

mumatron Fri 18-Mar-11 17:51:25

jane and tooimmature so very sorry for the both of you.

i'll light a candle for zoe and thea tonight.

GastonTheLadybird Fri 18-Mar-11 17:53:46

I am so very sorry for both of your losses.

unfitmother Fri 18-Mar-11 17:55:25

I'm very sorry to hear that, my DS was stillborn in late Feb a few years ago now.

The pain never goes away but it does ease, I hope you and your DF get through this together and that you found comfort from the funeral, I know I did.

TheSecondComing Fri 18-Mar-11 19:54:33

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MilkNoSugarPlease Fri 18-Mar-11 20:09:08

Oh I'm so very sorry to you both You are both in my thoughts

TysonNobdie86 Fri 18-Mar-11 20:11:17

How awful, so sorry for both of your losses

Pumpster Fri 18-Mar-11 20:12:29

So sorry x

crystalglasses Fri 18-Mar-11 20:13:04

This is just dreadful for you both. Your babies will live on in your memories as bright shining stars. You are blessed that you carried them for so long, even though they didn't make the final journey to the world.

lockets Fri 18-Mar-11 20:15:48

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Jemma1111 Fri 18-Mar-11 20:16:41

My heart goes out to you both, so sorry x

janedoe25 Sat 19-Mar-11 00:20:16

Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. Zoe's funeral was one of the hardest days of my life but i was strong and got through it for my girl it was after all her day. It was a beautiful service and im sure she would have been proud.
This week has been hard but the one thing that keeps going is knowing that my beautiful daughter is safe and at rest.
I just wanted to let you all know how i am, i have found a thread (thanks to pottering) of fantastic women who have all suffered the loss of a child and im finding it a great help.

Thank you.

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TheSecondComing Sat 19-Mar-11 00:23:16

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LauraIngallsWilder Sat 19-Mar-11 00:34:15

for you

ilovesprouts Thu 24-Mar-11 17:38:54

so sorry x

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