I am not sure if i'm in the right place but wanted to ask a question as its really playing on my mind.
my dad died of alcoholism nearly 6 years ago. he was my idol and only 51 when he passed. he always talked about grandkids etc but i was only 23 when he passed so had only be married for a short time so no grandkids at that point.
he is buried close by and have always visited him with my children, when we brought our dd1 home from hospital before went home we took her to him and we often go to the grave and let off balloons for him.
my dd1 is 2y11 months and was a late speaker so when she has come out with the following it has stumped me.
i have always told her grandad ** lives on a star and she often says hello to him when the stars are out.
the other night i was feeding dd2 and she hid behind me and said no grandad ** thats is not how you play peek a boo, this way silly.... now i have never referred to 'peek a boo' as that it has always been hide and seek or boo so it is unusual for her to use that term.
then last night i was on the landing putting some towels away and she was playing in her room and she was chatting away to her toys i thought but then i heard her say 'grandad ** no sad or cry, mommy loves you and me and dd2. shall we go back to the burn..' now the 'burn' was somewhere my dad played when he was little, its 300 miles away where he used to live and my dd1 has never been there nor have i talked about it to her.
I know this is probably silly but do you think she sees him? she says she does but whether thats just her saying so because i asked i'm not sure.
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could my dd be seeing my dad (deceased)- i have posted in philiosphy to but not sure where it is most releavant
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rdmommy · 14/01/2011 11:23
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