Hi,
I'm looking for some help on what to write in a sympathy card. Our DD is being treated for cancer. We've made friends on the ward with a little boy whose family found his cancer was terminal a few weeks after we met. We've grown closer over the recent weeks as he outlived his initial prognosis by a couple of months. He died peacefully yday.
I know the parents have asked for no contact initially and privately said a few times that they want to 'go away and come back when all the texts and cards have stopped'.
I don't want them to think that we are not thinking about them but want to respect their wishes. I know from experience months after the death and anniversaries later are hardest so thinking about the best timing to write. But equally don't want to upset them!
So for those who've lost a child, what helped you and when?
Also, do I include DD on the letter? She was friends with the boy, and definitely kept the parents entertained but I don't want to seem like I am rubbing their nose in it (not that we are out of the woods yet)
Thanks
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stripeybumpsmum · 10/01/2011 09:46
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