My daughter

(18 Posts)
AppleHEAD Tue 04-Jan-11 13:56:26

She was stillborn at 34 weeks almost five years ago. Today she would have started school.... I feel stupidly sad. She died a baby so she was never going to go to school but I am still struggling to keep it together today.
At least I had her for 34 weeks..

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drivingmisscrazy Tue 04-Jan-11 13:58:55

so sorry for you; these milestones must be so hard. Take care

Besom Tue 04-Jan-11 14:00:43

I'm so sorry.

BadSkiingMum Tue 04-Jan-11 14:02:36

A sad day for you - so sorry.

knottyhair Tue 04-Jan-11 14:13:46

I'm so sorry. I was just sitting here thinking about my best friends' daughter who died a few hours after birth, also almost five years ago. Hope this time treats you gently.

tobytoes Thu 27-Jan-11 21:25:04

Hi,so so sorry to hear about your loss.

I lost my baby on 1/1/11. 4 weeks ago. He was absolutely perfect.

Its such a difficult thing to go through and it changes your life completely.

I hope you have found the strength to get through today. I keep thinking atleast my baby died in his mummies tummy,all safe and warm.xxxxxx

Hugs.xxx

EightiesChick Thu 27-Jan-11 21:30:36

Very sorry, Applehead and tobytoes. Take care of yourselves.

Appletrees Thu 27-Jan-11 21:32:16

Just your title.. my daughter. I'm so sorry, so sorry. Your daughter.

AppleHEAD Fri 04-Feb-11 22:45:34

I am going to buy some of those Chinese lanterns and let them off when it's her birthday... It's just a question of finding ways to cope

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LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop Fri 04-Feb-11 22:51:38

Thinking of you.

The lanterns - that's such a lovely idea, do you mind if I borrow it for my daughter's memorial day? (We decided to remember her on her due date, which was also the day we scattered her ashes, as we don't want her twin sister's birthday to always be sad.
I might bet lots and lots of the cow-friendly ones (no metal) and we can make it an annual tradition. Only if you don't mind though.

Take care of yourself.

AppleHEAD Sat 05-Feb-11 20:01:26

Of course I don't mind that's lovely. It's a very good idea to have a different day... I used to write a message on a balloon and let that go but her sister always cried because she wanted the balloon.

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ItsAllaBitDeathlyQuiet Sat 05-Feb-11 20:07:35

My condolences. It must be terribly hard.

ttalloo Sat 05-Feb-11 20:24:29

applehead, tobytoes, loopy, I'm so very sorry for your losses.

I'm so moved by your posts - I had two early MCs and nearly went demented with grief, and I can't begin to imagine what you have all suffered. I hope that you have lots of support in RL and are able to cope on these difficult anniversaries.

Sending you hugs.

dearprudence Sat 05-Feb-11 20:25:04

Oh, that's so sad Apple. I wish you strength. x

Sorry for your loss too, tobytoes. x

SpeedyGonzalez Sat 05-Feb-11 20:45:06

sad

KarenHL Sat 05-Feb-11 21:14:39

I lost my beloved DS this past Christmas - he lived for an hour.

Apple, you're not being silly - part of me is grieving for the life I hoped DS would live and milestones like learning to read, watching him toddle are things I am so sad I'm going to miss, IYSWIM.

Virtual hugs to you, Tobytoes & anyone else who's lost a LO.

AppleHEAD Sun 06-Feb-11 20:16:01

Karen you poor thing. Sad today as well with what's happened to Amanda Holden, imagine going through this in the public eye.

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Hardandsleazy Sun 06-Feb-11 20:21:16

I am so sorry - and for tobytoes and anyone else who has lost a child . The lanterns idea is lovely (I have a tree in garden for my son who I lost at 21 weeks)

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