Flying high enjoying their wings, Remembering our precious much loved children...

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CazandBelle Sun 21-Nov-10 20:35:10

For my beautiful Anabelle Violet. Born an angel.

Mummy and Daddy miss and love you so much. Always. xxx

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lavandes Sun 21-Nov-10 21:03:31

caz this is a lovly thread, thankyou I am rubbish at words but I have had such a lot of support from you all over the past 7 months which I can never repay xxc

Precious memories of our beloved Richard, Dad,Son and Brother - loved and missed so much xx

Minione Sun 21-Nov-10 21:26:59

Hi ladies. Thanks for starting the new thread, Caz.

Ilike - I understand what you mean! I have a cat and I'm obsessed over something happening to her. She never goes out the front, just the gardens at the back. However, a few weeks after Malachy died she went wandering over the front and down a rather long drive of a house opposite. I was paranoid and sent DH to fetch her back (he was standing in the street shaking cat treats!) the thought of something hasppening to my precious Soprano was just too much. But, yes, this miscarriage is just another shit thing to happen to me this year. Its also just over a year from my first miscarriage so I've basically had a whole year of it. I am really upset but it hasn't hit me as such. Sometimes my mind is telling me, it will happen, you will have a baby and then I think perhaps I have to face a reality that it mightn't happen.
ANd that is to unbearable to think about so I shut it out.

Shelley - so sorry to hear about you and your DH, look after yourself xx

lavandes Sun 21-Nov-10 21:48:38

mini You will have a baby, but you will never forget your losses, don't give up but give yourself time to recover your health. Hope you and your husband find some peace soon xxx

shabbapinkfrog Sun 21-Nov-10 23:58:46

Hope that things improve for you Shelley xx

Mini - I still have no words that can help....except to say that I am thinking about you and your DH. So sorry I cant be of any more help to you. xx

Thinking of my beloved lads - Gareth and Matty...hope you know how much I love you boys xxx

shabbapinkfrog Mon 22-Nov-10 06:45:52

Morning girls xx

lavandes Mon 22-Nov-10 07:07:42

Morning ladies xx

shelleylou Mon 22-Nov-10 10:02:21

Morning ladies. Thank ou all for the thoughts. I'm ok with the seperation think it was just shock for the first few days but now I'm happuier than i have been for a long time. Things are looking up thanks to some fabulous friends. Last night was the first night I've spent on my own, I've had a mate to stay as her exp kicked her out, it was a little bit strange but better than how things have been when he as here. Onwards and upwards.

CazandBelle Mon 22-Nov-10 11:09:44

Morning ladies

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spilttheteaagain Mon 22-Nov-10 12:09:34

Caz thanks for starting this thread.

shelley so sorry to hear about the tough time you've been having and glad you are feeling stronger.

mini my thoughts are still with you.

I got into work today for my 2nd day back after crying all the way there (not advised when driving...) and the first person I saw swanned into my office and said:
"Nice to see you back, how are you? (barely pauses for breath) Oh well these things happen. Now, I'm looking for a parcel..."

I could barely speak and just sobbed as soon as she walked out. How dare anyone dismiss my baby like that???!

lavandes Mon 22-Nov-10 14:24:21

spilt people say the most insensitive things and it is so upsetting. Hope you feel calmer soon. xx

woollyjo Mon 22-Nov-10 14:40:20


hazygirl Mon 22-Nov-10 17:01:39

evening girls,xx

travellingwilbury Mon 22-Nov-10 17:03:04

Hello everyone x

Great thread title Caz x

I am really sorry to hear about your break up Shelley but glad you sound so positive .

Hope everyone is ok x

shelleylou Mon 22-Nov-10 18:32:59

The way i see it is i got through my brothers death, not that i know how so i can get through this. Neither of us were happy and now we both have the chance to be

travellingwilbury Mon 22-Nov-10 20:47:20

Shelley you are right , you will be fine , in the words of Shabs gorgeous boy , "grab life by the balls and give it a good shake "

Probably not the exact words but near enough I reckon grin

shabbapinkfrog Mon 22-Nov-10 21:29:03

smile thats very close TW - I can see his cheeky grin now just reading your words xx

AxisofEvil Mon 22-Nov-10 22:01:55

Hello all

shelleylou Mon 22-Nov-10 22:18:28

I do like that anaology and thats exactly what i plan on doing. I'm currently quitely crapping myself that my hair is going to go blonde. I'm naturally very dark brown almost black and want to go light brown for a change so had to get blonde hair dye. <<<<trembles>>>

shabbapinkfrog Tue 23-Nov-10 06:39:06

Morning girls xx

lavandes Tue 23-Nov-10 07:06:51

Morning ladies xx

spilttheteaagain Tue 23-Nov-10 07:38:05

morning x

shelleylou Tue 23-Nov-10 09:02:24

Morning <<Prances round room>>

shabbapinkfrog Tue 23-Nov-10 09:09:23

Easy Tiger!!! <<joins in with the prancing even though she has no idea why!!>>

shelleylou Tue 23-Nov-10 09:13:18

roarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. I've got up in a really good mod dispite ds trying to smother me with a pillow, hit me with it and my hair looking a lil ginger at the roots. LMAO!! Well i wanted a change lol

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