I have a fantastic friend whose mum died today after a long battle with a horrible illness. I don't want to be too specific as it feels strange to be posting about someone else's grief.
He has been there for me through thick and thin, listened to my (frankly patheticcompared to this) woes, picked me up off the floor etc. What I am trying to say is that he has been a fabulous friend.
We no longer live close to each other and he has understandably said he is not up to talking.
He is single and does not have many friends close by. I only mention this to explain that he doesn't have a partner to help him through this.
I want to help him, to take away some of his pain but he has asked for space and I realise this is about him obviously and not me and I must respect that. I feel. he is a person who bottles his feelings up and doesnnnnn ask for help very easily.
Can anyone help me by suggesting how I can be a good friend without interfering?
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My dearest friend's mum has died. How can I best support him?
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hippohead · 03/10/2010 22:42
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