Hello ladies (and gentlemen)
I need some help. I am in a serious relationship with a man, who has 3 children - two step-children aged 19 & 21 who have always lived with him, and one natural son aged 15 who lived with his mother.
A week last Thursday, their mother took an overdose and died. Prior to this, there were no signs that this might happen, no history or anything. And there has been no explanation (although the divorce that was part-way through may have been a contrubuting factor).
The boys all want me around, and I desperately want to be with them and help them, not just at this time, but going forward. But I am completely new to this 'guardian' role, and I don't know how to help them through it all.
Their father and I seem to be getting stronger through this family tragedy, so we are a tight unit for them, and I have simply tried to feed them, make them wash themselves, do their washing and their housework. And of course provide the listening ear, the hugs and the reassurance that they are still loved.
I feel like I'm just wandering forward blindfolded - I don't know what the best things to do are. If anyone can give me any guidance or advice, or even reading reference materials, I would be so grateful.
Kind regards
Lindsay
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ThreeStepSons · 31/08/2010 11:24
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