Really not sure of the best way to tackle this problem. DS is 3.1, is very bright but refuses to be a "big boy". When I call him a big grown up boy, he'll just laugh and say "No mummy, I'm a baby!"
He isn't potty trained (I think he could do it if he put his mind to it and wanted to do it but seems really reluctant, again I think as it would make him a big boy), still drinks from a beaker and refuses a glass, very rarely helps getting him dressed/undressed (although did both the other night with no problems.
He has a 9 month old baby sister which my I think may be where the problem lies. He still gets plenty of mummy time ( I worry that DD doesn't get enough attention), loves her to bits but is pobably a little jealous of her still.
I'm not overly bothered with him not being potty trained, or other big boy things but I do worry that he's upset or worrying about growing up, and that I'm damaging his self esteem somehow. I've racked my brains as to what I could be doing wrong/ could do better, but really not sure. I want to be able to make him look foward to growing up without wishing my baby girl's babyhood away, it's over so quick as it is!
Any one got any ideas?
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tweetyfish · 18/08/2005 21:33
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