my 3 year old son still goes to bed with a bottle, a bottle of juice nonetheless. Its a habit that i can't help him to break. I have tried numerous times since I noticed the attachment he had towards the bottle when he was a baby but all have failed. Now hes a child and its important to him, its not just a habit. My numerous attempts and failings of discarding the bottle have made him more resolute than ever. He is big for his age and hes proud of being a 'big boy' and hes been out of nappies for 18 months so its not as if its an overall attachment to babyhood. He also knows that other children don't have bottles but hes adamant that he will always have one. If I throw away his bottles now I know that I would be causing him a great deal of stress and maybe long term upset and distrust for me. He is a great sleeper and he usually just has the one bottle to fall asleep with, although he also has one in the morning to help him settle and when hes v.tired or upset/poorly. My second baby is due in 7 weeks, which is also the same time that he will be starting playgroup full time so I really don't want to make another attempt around that time. The whole thought of taking the bottle off him makes me feel awful and I don't know if I could be that callous but I know somehow its got to be done. Can anyone offer any real, sensitive advice on dealing with this without scarring him and should I do it now or wait until ds2 is settled into our family?
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