Those with a sensitive disposition please look away now!
When my DD was about 10 months old she began to rub her groin against the crotch strap of her highchair at meal times. Since then she has started doing this in her buggy and carseat at any opportunity. She gets pretty worked up - huffing and puffing, zoning out, eyes rolling etc. I've tried her in different buggies and different high chairs but the result is the same and she is too young to be restrained without the crotch strap.
I guess she is doing this cos it is somehow a nice sensation and she finds it comforting (I'm pretty sure this started cos she absolutely hated meal times - very poor eater) but it is getting more and more frequent in her pram now. It's very obvious and embarassing for me and (presumably) whomever I'm with when we're out and about.
I took her to the GP to rule out any physical reason for her doing this (thrush etc) and got the all clear. The GP says it's just a phase and she'll grow out of it but also said she had never seen it in a child this young - usually 2-3 year olds. The GP said we should just ignore it and try to distract her. This is getting harder and harder to do and it is really interfering with her dismal eating - she much prefers to hump than eat a meal.
What I'm looking for is here is:
a) some re-assurance that we're not the only parents coping with this behaviour in a child this age (13 months now).
b) some coping mechanisms, distraction techniques that have worked for you/your child?
I'd appreciate any insight on offer.
Many thanks
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DD 1 year old rubbing/humping activity!
spooniemoonie · 10/05/2010 09:33
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