I have posted about this before, but i still find myself in trouble! My 5 year old is driving me bonkers! he is soo naughty, i find myself constantly asking him to not throw his toys, not smack his little brother, not run around his bedroom screaming and shouting at 6am!! he says quite sincerely 'no i wont' or 'i will be good mummy and i wont smack may jakey' as soon as i turn my back hes chucking ALL his toys around, smacking his brother again and every single morning, almost the second he opens his eyes, he's jumping around his room, turns his tv volume up so its blasting out! - he just has no care or respect for others at all! i know he is only 5 but even at 5 he should have at least a little respect for others! he has had alot of trouble at school also, his teacher has told me the main problem is if they ask him to do something he doesnt want to do - he just flat out refuses and kicks and screams the place down, or if he's decided he wants to do something and he is not allowed - they get the same reaction! he simply has no care for authority no matter where it comes from, and i have got up this morning to find he has messed his room up and is sat slapping his little brother accross the face!!!! i have just finally lost it and told him he is a horrible little boy and i dont want to see him anymore, i shut his bedroom door and told him he canstay there all day! - obviously i wont leave him there all day, but i really cant bear the thought of bringing him down as he will just start again straight away, i have no means of disciplining him anymore - i have tried everything! he just does what he wants when he wants no matter what and i can honestly say im so completley at my wits end, i have got to the point where i cant invite my friends and there children round anymore as he just kicks off!! im so depressed with it all! i would appreciate anyones ideas or insight into what i might be doing wrong at all! Sorry its such a long rant!
Helen xxxxx
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AnotherHelen · 01/08/2005 09:30
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