My 5 year old DD is having more and more tantrums, up to about 2-3 a day. Way more than she had as a two year old.
The latest example, that ended in kicking and screaming was at bedtime tonight. I started reading a second short story, and she wasn't paying attention. The time was getting on so I stopped the story. She started jumping on the bed (I am also getting worried about her hyperactivity, especially at bedtime - she runs around and jumps on furniture and won't stop when we tell her to). Then she decided she wanted the rest of the story. I decided she wasn't going to get it, since she wasn't paying attention, and the bedtime hour had by now passed.
DD started pestering for the story. I said I would read it tomorrow. So as not to encourage pestering, I refused back down.
Thus ensued a full blown tantrum about wanting this story.
Similarly, she pesters her dad for things like sweets and donuts, and when he doesn't back down and give in to her pestering, she has a full blown tantrum.
We do not, however, give in to tantrums. She still does not get what she wants.
Just now I shut her door and just waited for her to stop.
She also has very poor concentration at school, and although she is the oldest in her class, DD is the furthest behind on reading.
thanks for any advice.
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Five year old tantrums increasing
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marykat2004 · 09/02/2010 19:56
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