Our 3 year old DS is waking in the night and crying, yelling and screaming uncontrollbably. This can go on for up to an hour, around midnight or in the early hours, and sometimes more than once.
When one of us goes into his room he is usually out of bed, standing up, sometimes shaking and at first seems as if he is still half asleep.
He will not respond when we ask him what the matter is, his language is excellant for a boy of his age, and we ask him to 'use words' but he just keeps crying and yelling.
He is often then put on the toilet, and he does a wee, whilst the cying continues and still doesn't stop afterwards.
Our 1 year old baby is in the next room and is sometimes woken by all this, which we fear because then we have to deal with both of them. This is also obviously affecting our sleep and making us frustrated and often angry (shouting) which we later regret and think we are bad parents.
We have tried talking to him calmly, taking him downstairs so as to avoid disturbing our baby. We ask him to calm down and that he can go back up stairs once he is calm again, but this seldom works. He does eventually calm down and go back to sleep, but it takes a good while.
Is this night terrors? attention seeking? behavioural? He often asks for the light on in his room (once he has actually started to talk back to us - but still sobbing and yelling)), or to get in with us or for one of us to sleep in his bed, which we have done once (of each) but we don't want to set precedences. We have recently moved house, but been here for over a month now, and this behaviour although very frequent doesnt happen every night, but nearly everynight.
We have also tried incentives to be quiet or promises to take privildges away from him eg. no Shrek DVD tomorrow (which he loves at the mo).
We are obviously really worried about him and his behaviour and it is also affecting our ability to function during the day due to lack of sleep.
Any advice/shared experinces welcome please.
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Toddler's Uncontrollable Nightime Crying/Yelling
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JimbobJones · 20/11/2009 13:26
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