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appropriate sanctions for a v spirited 3.3 ds aggressive behaviour

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sloppysoupdragon Thu 05-Nov-09 14:10:15

Hi. my DS is a very intelligent boy, very tall for his age and can pass for a 5 year old in the playground and can have an adult conversation with neighbours and grown up friends and is very physically capable and in many years to old for his young body and brain -his behaviour is still very immature and is prone to angry outbursts and has apparently little self control. When he is aggressive and hits out at people he is immediately removed and asked to apologise and then ignored while the victim is comforted and the current sanction is no tv / computer games for the rest of the day. When he is cross he has taken to throwing things - preferably things he knows we will miss if broken. I am trying to encourage him to jump up and down / throw cussions at the sofa to defuse his temper. On one recent occasion he appeared to be copying some of the material he has seen on CBBC from horrible histories which was on in hte background at a recent playdate ( the older children had been watching it ) and I quickly removed him but he immediately started ' deading' some of his playmates ) I find his behaviour alarming. What does anyone else think? Do I keep doing the same strategy in the hope it will change his behaviour? I have been doing this for some weeks now and nothing seems to be working as yet...

LeninGuido Thu 05-Nov-09 14:44:31

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

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