hi...
my ds2 (21 months) has suddenly gone from being the easiest lil guy to put to bed to absolutely refusing to go down in his cot, screaming the house down, wriggling out of my arms and squirming into my bed at bedtime... he goes to sleep happily there without further fuss but i feel i am giving in to him in what appears to be essentially a battle of wills. he is obviously developing a very strong one of his own. I did do the sleep learning thing at 13 months and that worked fine for him although deep down i'm not really into that approach. Hence although there's a part of me that feels i should insist and go back to the crying it out 'techniquge', my overall parenting philosophy stops me from doing so. Perhaps he thinks he's ready for his own bed, not cot. He wants to get into bed with his older brother.
The whole setup was completely different with my older son who co-slept with us until he got his own bed and bedroom aged two and that transition was completely painless and hassle-free. Knowing that my own lack of strategy is making him worse daily is driving me bonkers. Help! Any advice anyone?
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ds2 suddenly become a nightmare to put to bed - battle of wills
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lupiloona · 24/10/2009 20:52
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