I usually read, sometimes reply, but don't usually ask questions. Now I'm at a loss - please help me!
My daughter, aged 7 (nearly 8) has become increasingly obnoxious. If I'm honest, she's driving me mad. She's like a teenager, really rude, with no respect for me or her father, and horrible to her younger brother. She is very clever, has lovely manners and can be utterly charming when she wants to be - not so often now, though still usually out of the house/with guests. For example, she was just extremely rude and I asked her to go to her room. She refused and it went on. I asked her six times before she finally went. I then asked her once she had calmed down (or seemed to have) why I'd had to ask her six times. She said, throwing back her hair "seven actually." Aaagh.
What can I do? I've banned the computer for the weekend and threatened no trick or treating next week. I used to think I was quite good at this parenting lark and have had compliments in the past about my well behaved and lovely children. Hah! It is all changing and I am at a loss. Please help with any tips. I don't want her to be boring or just to do what we want all the time. I love that she has a personality. BUt she is rude and horrible nearly all the time now, and I am at my wit's end.
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DD (though not soD) is being completely obnoxious. Any advice?
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doiwant3 · 23/10/2009 17:56
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