I have got two dds. Dd1 was and still is very obedient, sensitive and docile.
DD2 is her opposite. She is assertive, confident and aggressive.
I mentioned them both not as much as to compare them but to make you understand why I am a bit mistified and at loss. As I never had problem with dd1 I thought I sassed it . (You are allowed to laugh away now).
Dd2 is the funniest thing and very independent and adventurous. She is also stubborn and wants to do things her way (am I talking about myself here ).
Here's the main problem - she can be quite aggressive towards other children. Now, she is only 19 months but it becomes embarassing, for me, and annoying for others to be around her because she seems to scare other children, even older ones.
Example: at playarea. DD2 scans the territory around her. Sees girl with toy pram. Walk all puffed up (like a cobra) towards girl. Gets very close and stares at her in the eye. Makes loud noise. Lift her hand and ... either grabs pram forcefully or gently hits or pretends to hit (which has same effect) said child.
I always tell her off and explain. If I catch her in time and tell her something she stops straight away. She also go in 'Time Out' and she understands why and always goes and say sorry.
It seems to me that this is the way she reacts when faced with something she cannot deal with or is ovewhelemd, in the same way her sister used to stand there crying calling me.
However while everybody laugh at her terminator ways, especially because she so doesn't look it, I can see that it becomes a bit annoying to the parents of the children she terrifies.
Is there anything else I could do? Is it a phase?
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My daughter is a Terminator. Any help is much appreciated. (LONG)
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DamonBradleylovesPippi · 16/10/2009 21:19
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