......who half throttled her best friend at nursery this morning. They have a lovely friendship and quite often play boisterously - I or her friend's mum will intervene if things look like getting out of hand.
All handled very well by the nursery, and the other mum (who is a close friend) is ok about it.
I'm very, very upset though....DD1 is a strong willed child and just does not seem to listen when asked/told to be gentle (or not to be rough). She is very physical with both adults and children (although gentle on the whole with babies). DD2 is six months old so this is certainly an element, although overt aggression was mostly directed at me, including deliberately trying to hurt me - not fun as I had a long recovery due to emcs.
After being told about today's incident, I spoke to her quietly and firmly, telling her that if she treats other children this way they will not be her friend, and that I am very sad and upset about her behaviour. I do smack her on occasion but not for this - it didn't seem appropriate.
I don't feel as if I am getting through to her, I worry that she is so wilful and not particularly empathic to others, I'm tired, angry, fed up of being treated as a punchbag by her and feel like the shittest mother in the world......
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lizzytee · 16/10/2009 14:41
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