I have a 9 and a half year old dd, mornings at present are really stressful, especially this past week.
She doesn't like being told to do something, so I put up a list of things on the front door that she needs for school each day.
All of a sudden she hates getting out of bed in the mornings, she is getting on average 10 hours sleep per night but says that she is tired.
She answers back, is rude, calls me names, this behaviour has been ongoing for the past couple of months. Its as if the teenage years have come early !!! She has always been brought up to be respectful and have good manners so I am shocked as to where this has come from. It really isn't good for either of us to start the day in such a way.
I have tried all the usual, withdrawing privileges, time out. The things she enjoys doing I can really stop her doing as they are school related stuff and the child has to sign a contract to show committment eg orchestra, after school clubs.
I thought that maybe if there was something in writing and clear set boundries(although I thought we already had that)that it may make things calmer.
I have had problems in the past with her behaviour but that all seemed to calm down when I changed her school last year.
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Has anyone else ever drawn up a Behaviour Contract between themselves and their child ? If so what did you put in it ?
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cheltenhamgal · 16/10/2009 10:20
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