My 3 yr old DS2 has just started nursery. He's quite wobbly about going in and we've had a few tears although once he's in he's happy and comes out smiling. He's always been more mummy centric than his brother. He knows 2 children at the nursery already from my friendships with their mothers. My instinct is to take it very gently and not rush playdates with other children. He plays well with his 5 year old brother, and the couple of friends he had at childminder and the son of my closest friend. Around me at nursery, there are a goup of mothers who are all very involved, their children have constant playdates and they all seem to do lots of childcare swops (without accompanying the child) IFYSWIM. Will my son be at a real disadvantage if he his not doing playdates yet? Does it mean he is going to be at a real disadvantage in the classroom? I guess it plays on my own insecurities about being on the periphery of this very active group of mothers with children that seem very happy to be left and doing lots of activities. Apologies for rambling post, its my first.
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How many and what type of playdates: 3 year old at nursery
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sunam · 12/10/2009 13:03
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