DS1 is 2 years old in 2 weeks time. He has had a few sleepovers at my SIL's house, first one 3 months ago when I was having DS2, then another overnight a few weeks ago, both which went fine and he came back his normal self.
He stayed there again last night but when he was dropped off home today he was really tired and just clung to me. When I tried to put him down for a nap he would just say 'nooooo' and would cuddle me even harder. He eventually went for a nap after I sat with him for a while (I never normally need to do this), then when he woke up 3 hours later he basically cried and clung to me until bedtime. He sat on my knee for his dinner then sat with his head buried in my shoulder crying and whimpering until bed. DH read him stories and sat with him in the dark until he fell asleep (he usually just gets himself to sleep). Although he is an affectionate wee boy who loves cuddles, he is never as clingy as this!
I'm now thinking 2 years old might be too young for a sleepover? Although SIL always says he loves it when he is there and he loves hanging out with his big cousin there. He knows them well too so it's not like they are strangers or anything. They have asked him to sleepover again in 2 weeks time but I'm now not so sure?
What age were your DC's when they had sleepovers?
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How old do you reckon the earliest age should be for DS to have a sleepover at in laws house?
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ilikeyoursleeves · 11/10/2009 21:30
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