My DD1 is 21 months but we seem to have started the Terrible Twos already. She has had tantrums/melt downs for a few months now and I generally try to distract her before she gets too upset but it doesn't always work. Anyway, we were on holiday last week with a group of friends. Everyone had gone out and I was at the flat with the DDs as they were sleeping. DD1 woke up from her nap and asked where our friend's dog was (dog had gone out with everyone). She then asked for 3 other friends and finally for daddy, getting more upset as I had to tell her that each of them was out. She finally just had a complete melt down over it, was completely hysterical and actually made herself sick. It was actually pretty scary and nothing I did seemed to help - I tried walking outside with her, showing her other things, hugging her but she just screamed and screamed for her daddy. I'm not sure I could even call it a tantrum, it seemed to be more of a panic attack. Anyway, I finally had to text DH to come back from wherever he was (I knew they were almost done anyway as he'd texted me just before she woke up). I managed to get her to calm down by sitting holding her (and poor DD2 who is only 12 weeks and was upset by the crying) and singing a nonsense song I made up on the spot. I don't think it was really about DH not being there, more a reaction to something that upset her.
Anyway, I'm sure hope she's not the first to have done this so I'd really love any tips on how to deal with absolute hysterics tantrums please. I don't like to see her so upset and obviously it's not much fun for her either but none of my bright ideas on tantrum management worked.
(I'll only be able to get back on pc tomorrow but any replies gratefully received even if I don't respond for a while!)
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DD1 had frankly scary tantrum - how do you deal with these??
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Hadeda · 07/10/2009 16:50
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