I have 2 DD, 9 and 6. Every night for the past 2 years my 9 yr old DD has come into our bed in the early/middle of the night to sleep. Up until now one of us has got up in our sleep and groggily walked into her bed to carry on sleeping. I know we have totally compounded the problem but am now looking for help on how to stop this. She knows she shouldn't do this, we have tried sticker charts and we are now deducting pocket money when she comes in. The trouble is in the middle of the night when she comes in and we try and get her back to bed she solidly says no, no and no! She shares a bed room with her sister and I am worried that any battles to get her back to bed will result in her sister waking up and WW III breaking out at some awful hour. Does anyone have any suggestions as it is really starting to get to us, neither my DH or I sleep well in her bed.
Grateful for any help, I appreciate we have probably 'made a rod for our own backs' but we can't turn back the clocks!
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Stopping my 9 yr old DD from coming into our bed
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Ruby40 · 05/10/2009 06:56
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