The slightest thing sets ds1 (3.2) off - usually something we can do nothing about, like the fact that whatever he is eating 'gets smaller' as he is eating it (this has been a complaint every mealtime for at least a week, resulting in tears and not finishing things he would normally love). He has developed a real dislike of getting any part of him wet or dirty (hand washing is always a flashpoint though oddly he still likes baths). He still has a nap after lunch, and is usually so foul-tempered when he gets up that it takes half an hour before the crying/shouting stops, and he can't give a reason for it that makes any sense. He is clearly feeling very needy and confused.
In fact pretty much anything we ask him to do that isn't what he already wants to do results in huge upset. He just seems so unhappy a lot of the time. Except when he has one-on-one total attention playing with exactly what he wants to play with - then he is delightful and funny.
Ds2 was born 9 weeks ago and it has got worse since then, but was already starting before he arrived. It has got so bad I started wondering today if he has some vitamin deficiency or something... he always sleeps 12 or 13 hours at night and for an hour after lunch so it seems unlikely he is overtired.
Any help or advice? I can't remember the last time he did something I asked without him bursting into tears or shouting.
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Three-year-olds - is it normal to be this emotional/contrary?
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JimmyMcNulty · 03/10/2009 21:52
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