He had a good few weeks settling in, so I did begin to relax...but this week he has hurt someone everyday. And today he has hit his teacher, cut someones hair and goodness knows what else. It sounds as if he has kicked off big style. The children had to be moved out of the classroom while he was removed from it.
Briefly spoke to the head...who just wanted me to leave with and go, so I haven't had a chance really to speak to the school. I have no problems with school or the way they dealt with him.
I just don't know what else to do...at home he is generally ok, although we do still have a few tantrums usually triggered by something completely random...wrong cup/getting dressed/things not being right where he is really aggressive..hitting me/dh etc
ds can be such a lovely boy, but has now made such a bad name for himself.
I feel so embarressed and I'm dreading school in the morning and having to face the other mums..the head said she is expecting a string of complaints.
So what can I do? The ed psych is already involved from when ds was in nursery. And we have another appt for november..but what about in the meantime?
I am a teacher my self, and we do all the things I advise my parents to do, we are consistent, loving and fair with ds, we don't smack or shout. I just don't understand why he is like this.
I know they must think we are terrible parents for ds to behave like this..but honestly we aren't..I'm so scared school will involve ss because ds is so aggressive.
I feel absolutley sick to my stomach and am in tears. I just don't know what to do anymore
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Please help....ds just sent home from school for awful behaviour...he's just 4.
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punchandjudy · 01/10/2009 15:13
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