I'm at my wits end, at the suggestion of my health visitor and gp I have been ignoring this for almost 10 months now. I can't link it to potty training because she used to do it when she was in nappies. She is doing it as I type! She started rocking/rubbing herself against the crotch strap in the buggy (all 3 of our buggies in fact) whilst seated and moving her legs at the same time. Then she started doing it in the car seat (another crotch strap). We thought it was the sensation of the nappy and it would stop once she was out of them - no such luck, she has better access now. She has just sat in the trolley in Waitrose doing it, she gets aggravated to the point of screaming when she has to get out and walk. Car journeys mean we have screaming and hiding in the footwell when we need to get out. If I ignore it , it can go on for an hour or so. Once she starts she refuses to be distracted with toys/activities she likes. It isn't a situation I can monitor all day as i have another child, just as demanding in her own way. I think it might be an attention thing as she defiantly stares me out while doing it but she will do it quite happily if I don't have eye contact with her. Doing it in front of other people doesn't bother her. She has eczema and at the moment has a rash on her back and legs as well. She is a very highly strung girl and she gets hysterical if the baby cries, hiding behind me. Her cranky behaviour most days shocks the shit out of me as we are both fairly laid back parents, although we have set boundaries on everything. Any ideas before I search for a chastity belt on ebay?
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2.8 year old daughter won't stop rubbing herself (sorry - bit graphic!)
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Littleover · 30/09/2009 12:13
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