Started a thread in parenting, but it is going nowhere so am trying here as I'm at the end of my tether with this.
DD (3) gets hysterical whenever I leave the house - she did it this morning as she and DD2 (17mths) were staying at home with their dad today (childminder on hols) while I went to work.
DD1 is fine going to the childminder - both DDs love her to bits, are never upset when dropped off, and have been with the same carer since 14mths old.
Though DD2 slightly favours me, DD1 always wants me to do EVERYTHING for her, and gets hysterical when I leave, when DH gets her dressed, when DH gets her up in the morning. DH is a great dad, and quite involved, so she is not a stranger to him.
She is generally a high maintenance child, and this, along with the limpet-like attachment to me is starting to wear me down. I'm worried I'm going to make things worse by pushing her away - though I'm very consciously trying not to do that at the moment.
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Extreme separation anxiety in 3.3 year old DD
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HLaurens · 21/09/2009 12:37
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