I am nearly losing my voice and getting more and more frustrated. He is constantly shoving him, snatching, trying to drag him around by the head and just generally trying to damage him.
I've tried everything, positive attention, positive motivation to not do it, time out, confiscating toys - he doesn't give a monkeys. I'm starting to really resent having to say the same crap over and over and over.
I have two boys now 2 and 4 - I am currently posting on another thread about them always fighting so I am by no means a parenting expert. However when they were the same age as your 2 at least i always knew ds1 was the guilty party.I got so fed up of repeating myself. I just pulled up a chair wherever I was busy - coz it always happened if I was washing up, cooking, etc, etc. Then immediately plonked ds1 on chair for required 3 mins. Usually gave him time to calm down, I didn't get raise my voicd so managed not to get angry myself and I managed to carry on with whatever I was doing. Its like a natural consequence 'if you can't be trusted to play near your brother you will have to stay next to me'. But do not speak to them while they are on the chair - or they are just being rewarded with your focussed attention.