DS (11) isn't exactly mugging old ladies, but his behaviour has changed for the worse over the past year or so as follows:
rude to his brother, incessant name-calling
quite rude to us, no name-calling but just big attitude
lazy - SO lazy! - with everything except computer games
quite often mean to his friends
doesn't see the point of working hard at school
no interest in having hobbies - does a couple of musical instruments but has to be harassed before he practices
I know this is all normal and to be expected, but how do you deal with this? Too old for sticker charts?
Also, the computer game thing is driving me mad. They have a certain amount of time on them, but when it's time to come off he goes to his mate's house and plays there. The only way to stop that is to basically ground him for no reason.
Bit trivial I know, but sure others have experienced same thing, just looking for a bit of guidance. Thanks.
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I know all this is 'normal' for an 11 yo, but how best to handle?
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fartmeistergeneral · 14/09/2009 17:19
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