My 7 year old son has woken twice this week in absolute terror at the thought of me dying. He says when I die he will kill himself. No amount of calming and reassurance seems to work. He doesn't want to be hugged as he says this makes it worse because it makes him think about how much he loves me and how much he would miss me when I die. He is an only child and I am a single parent, 43 yrs old. No other signs of separation anxiety, in fact in the mornings, despite his tiredness, he runs happily into school ahead of me. My mother died at a young age as did his paternal grandfather, so I have had to be honest about it not only being very old people who die. Hopefully I've done this in a senitive but matter of fact manner. In the past he's asked many questions about death, afterlife, burial and cremation, but without any alarm bells. Now I am becoming concerned given the level of his distress. Please help ..
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7 yr old constantly terrified by thought of me dying....
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Moz50 · 10/09/2009 19:12
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