DS is obsessed with sinks and pop up sink plugs. He loves removing those plugs and putting back them again. Do you think it is very weird thing to play with. Anybody else also had this problem?
Today it led to a crisis in our home and I feel so sad and lonely at the moment. I'll try to summarize what happened. We usually keep the sink in the ensuite clean and allow him to play with it and I told him to never play with the guess toilet's sink downstairs as we do not show any speacial attention to its cleanliness tbh and would not be nice to touch its pop up plug I believe. I told him not to do that several times and today he did it again, so I got really angry and may be first time (definetely did not happen much) I shouted at him really badly. Then I asked my husband to take him upstairs as I was really angry. He was eating snacks in the kitchen. My mom and dad were also at home so my dad took him to his playroom. DS started crying and obviously having tantrum then my also mom went there. I was able to hear their voices, first they tried to calm him down but he did not listen. Then my dad started shouting at him which i believe was a horrible thing to do. My husband interestingly still having snacks in the kitchen. I firmly asked him to go and look what's going on. He refused first saying that he needs to eat something as he is going to take his meds. Then he also went and 2-3 min later he called me urgently. When I went there my poor ds was crying in the ensuite as he took him there to play with the sink "to calm him down". This was the most stupid thing I have ever heard.
3 grown up people could not manage to calm a toddler down and they really s...d it up basically. I don't even know who to get angry with at the moment and feel very very lonely and low. I don't even have a space and a person to trust to get angry and lose it a bit once in a while.
I would appreciate any comments.
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family crisis over pop up sink plugs....
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margobambino · 23/08/2009 23:46
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