DD is 4.6
Normally she is relatively well behaved, she will have the odd strop but is a generally a 'nice' little girl who is a pleasure to be around.
However, ever since we came back from holiday she has been absolutely horrible! And (it pains me to admit this about my own child), she really is not a nice person to know at the moment and I am horrified by the way she is behaving.
She has lost all her manners, flies into rages for no apparent reason, seems to be permanently angry, doesn't care if she gets told off, in fact it makes her angrier, has been hitting other children (hitting/smacking is a HUGE no-no in our house and she hasn't done this since she was about 2), threatening to hit me/DH, tells us she hates us, shouts and screams and is constantly lying (my pet hate) about really obvious stuff. Oh, and she's started wetting her bed again too after nearly a year of being dry.
If something is wrong (and reading this back it certainly sounds like something is underlying all this), she won't talk about it. Just keeps saying (angrily) 'it doesn't matter' when we try to find out what's the cause of this behaviour.
I don't smack, I use the 1,2,3 followed by a consequence thing (generally being sent to bed/being taken away from the activity/no telly) and normally never get beyond 2, so I'm kind of freaked out by this sudden complete lack of regard for what I or DH say to her.
She's supposed to be going to a friend's house for 3 days next week while I'm at work (she's been at her school's holiday club for the last 3 weeks) and I'm dreading it because she's hit this friend's DD several times in the last week and called her horrible names (I've witnessed it) and generally been vile - I have to work those days, there is no way I can't, so if this arrangement falls down I'm stuffed, but I don't see why my friend (and her DD) should be subjected to DD's bad behaviour either iyswim...
I keep telling myself it's probably a phase, but am feeling utterly crap about my parenting ability and would love some advice/commiserations from anyone else who's been through this.
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At my wits' end with DD's behaviour - any advice, please?
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Fruitbeard · 22/08/2009 00:54
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