My DD has over the last two weeks started hitting out at adults and children. This normally occurs when she has been told 'no' to something or is displeased for some unknown reason. IMO she is way too wee for time-out, naughty steps and the like, so we have been consistent in getting down to her level, putting her hands by her sides and being very firm with her that hitting is not acceptable and then trying to divert her with something. I took her into nursery this morning and she hit two of her wee friends for no reason at all, and I know she has hit out at nursery staff - so she isn't just having a go and me and DP. None of my other mum pals seem to be having this bother with their toddlers. I am feeling very upset about her behaviour. I think I just need a bit of reassurance that this is normal, it will pass, and that being consistent with her will eventually put a stop to it.
it does pass, at 18months dd hit everyone, went right in for the kill with two hands swinging .It was particularly bad if someone came near something she was playing with, but could happen just for the sheer hell of it. I was distraught.
Now at (almost) 2, she at least has the courtesy to say "mummy, hit the boy?"
We have this too. DD2 also 18 months hits her twin sister a lot, especially in fights over toys. She also hits me and DH if she is annoyed with us. She has such a temper. Have had no reports on her hitting others children at nursery yet. She did raise her hand to our friend's 1 year-old DS the other day and I managed to grab her hand before she slapped him and said in a firm voice 'no hitting'. I agree that 18mths is too young for naughty step etc and it sounds like you are doing all the right things. Please don't worry that your DD is doing something unusual though and at least she's not a biter!!
Thanks all for the reassurance. Feeling better as I had a word with the nursery staff and they are handling it exactly how I want them to - I have no doubt consistency (and a good dose of luck) is the key to this phase ending - then it will be onto the next one! Here's hoping it's not biting - not sure I cope with a piranha .