Any tips on how to stop her playing with the poo inside a dirty nappy when I change it?
I've tried putting various things into her hands so she has something to distract her but they end up getting wiped too [grim emoticon]. I've tried singing / playing lots to no effect. I've tried explaining. I've treid gentle patience. I;ve tried ignoring (this has been going on for some time). And tonight I totally lost my rag with her, which left her only confused.
There has to be a way that works.
We're thinking of potty training her soon but a couple of other big disruptions are on the go at the moment so I don't think it's the time, although in other ways I think she might be ready.
while you change it? just erm, don't let her? i dunno, ds2 attempts this from time to time, but i tend to hold his legs up in the air with one hand and wipe with the other so he can't really reach down.