Hi,
my 11mo DS has started crying if he is left alone for seconds. I have been advised this is separation anxiety as he is just learning that we are not one person - but it's not specific to me, he's fine with DH but cries if he leaves the room too. He's a bit whingy with other people if neither DH or I are in the room but mainly if he is tired, which I think is normal.
This stage has coincided with me returning to work 3 days a week, DH has him at home so it's minimally disruptive.
Is this a normal age to have this stage? How long will it last? What should we do? (return immediately if he cries, or just call out to him and ignore the crying type of thing) We have always fostered his independence and he's usually happy to play on his own for short periods.
Thanks! It's doing my head in....we have put stairgate up so he can crawl to the top of the stairs, only a few feet from kitchen/bathroom but rather than crawl to follow you, he often just plumps himself down and cries!
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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 17/08/2009 10:02
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