we live in a very quiet and peaceful spot in the country, she is well trained in road safety and what to do if a stranger stops to talk to her (we do role play in it every few weeks to reinforce)
i am a great advocate of getting her to be self-sufficient, self-reliant and confident. for the last 6 months i have let her play down the lane on her own, so long as she doesn't stray past points x and y and so long as she tells me where she is going.
she has a friend the same age who lives around 300 yards away, on the same quiet lane. she doesn't even need to cross the lane to get there.
if she is going round there to play i just let her go on her own, but when it is time for her to come back, she is always escorted by her friend's parent/s, who always have a pursed mouthed disapproving face on ...
i'm sure that they think i am slack and irresponsible ...
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am i wrong letting 8 yr old SD down the lane on her own?
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mrshibbins · 15/08/2009 12:42
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