Hi
My DD (nearly 3) is a lovely little girl when around other children, has never lashed out at others, shares her toys etc when other children come round. The other week I went to pick her up from nursery and she was around a corner of the room with some other children and didn't see me standing there. I was just watching what they were doing and another boy pushed her for no reason. She immediately went away and stood by the wall with her fingers in her mouth looking sorry for herself (this boy's mother was there by the way and didn't say a word to her son which I was fuming about). Anyway, I went and picked her up and straight away she told me what happened which I obviously saw already and I told her that she should go to one of the nursery staff if that happens. She said no so I said to push back. I no its wrong but I don't want her being picked on. I felt awful for her.
I did also speak to one of the nusery staff but they can't watch everything that goes on and they assured me that they don't usually see that sort of behaviour and if they do they act quickly.
What would you advise?
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Is it wrong to tell DD (nearly 3) to push back?
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Sophiale01 · 13/08/2009 11:59
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