I think DD now fits into the category of phobia about having her hair washed.
For over a year we have had to grab her kicking and (literally)screaming to do it, and it's got to the point where it is so traumatic no one can handle doing it. We have tried absolutely everything - flannel over the face and those ring things you fit over the forehead (won't let us even get near her with them), taking her to the hairdresser (worked only once)talking about it, watering cans with vey small spouts - everything, but it's now a phobia, and i just can't face traumatising her (or us)any more. Every attempt fails. Her cradle cap is coming back.
My sister says to just leave it for the moment, that the psychological damage to her outweighs any benefit - I'm embarrassed to admit how long it is since the last wash but it's over 2 months...
has anyone been through this? i know it's just a phase but it's been over a year now. Also, nothing specific set it off.
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Hairwashing phobia - any advice?
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tetleytea · 09/08/2009 11:13
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