mine is just knackering. everything is a negotiation. if she doesn't want to do something there is nothing i can do to make her do it. Things have got easier since i stopped worrying about what she eats/doesn't eat. Let her cry at night time (as long as she doesn't get too upset) and try and keep her interested/stimulated all day that way she's less likely to do something dreadful. She's helterskelter but a load of fun.