I get nuts here ... please advice how can i teach 6yo DD to understand age differences when she insists on preaching everybody, no matter if adults, older children .... she became so annoying lately (even for us) while started to call everybody silly (DH is a favorite target), hunting for the slightest mistake, laughing at it out loud and rubbing it into people's faces over and over again.
She is very sensitive to any critics towards herself but would insist on going on with emphasizing smb else's mistake again and again, while any attempt of mine to stop her and make her understand it's not a nice thing to do will end up with her just getting grumpy or simply ignore it.
We had this going on for some time but didn't make a big deal out of it, until DD started to have a hard time in the summer camp (she got slapped in the face by an older girl the other day, after DD was calling her silly several times - DD was not exactly in the position of preaching the other girl. Appart form that DD comes every single day telling us 'sad' stories about how nice she is but all the others hate her!
How do i explain to her that 9 yo do know a bit more than 6yo, without hurting her feelings? That a 6yo is not exactly in the position to call others silly especially if we talk about much older children? Not to mention adults? How do i explain to her that it's ok to be 6yo smart but still have plenty to learn, and this attitude of hers is just gonna drive her friends away?
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how do you teach age hierarchy? 6yoDD absolutely irritating and preaching everybody, having trouble socializing
joburg · 02/08/2009 12:07
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