Newbie post: Why does my 4.1 year old daughter change personality as soon as a visitor steps into the house? She just comes out with the most embarrassing behaviour; ie every Friday her 14yo half-sister comes to stay for a night, and she drools at her, licks her clothing and harrasses the poor girl the moment she comes in. The sister just refuses to believe that she is not like this all the time. This weekend we had friends round who have a boy in her preschool class. She went berserk, absolutely destroying the playroom, ran screaming around the garden, being loud and rude when it was pizza time. It was cringeworthy.
Then as soon as everyone has gone, she is back to her normal self, drawing/watching TV and being creative. We also have a 1.75 yo who luckily seems well-behaved, but the 4.1yo has always been lively.
I tell her off, threaten (and carry out!) but nothing works. She promises to behave but as soon as the doorbell rings, she is a nightmare until they've gone.
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Why does 4 yo play up when visitors arrive?
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LittleMinxes2 · 27/07/2009 23:13
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