My DS aged 4 (just) is becoming more and more boisterous and physical. He's just a really normal boy, full of energy and fun - but last few weeks he's not listening to anything I say. So when I'm explaining that hitting his little brother, snatching toys, screaming at the top of his voice when I haven't answered him immediately, running headlong at speed into people in the street etc etc isn't the best behaviour, he just looks at me, says sorry then runs off again to repeat the bad stuff 5 minutes later.
We don't use any form of punishment on him - we choose to speak to him and explain how unreasonable/selfish etc he's being.
However I don't think that's working and need some form of punishment so that he becomes aware that if he behaves in an unacceptable manner, then there will be consequences.
I've thought about the usual (sending him to his room for time out, no TV etc) but I need something that I can use with immediate effect especially when we're out and about.........
Anyone have any tips?
He's beginning to get a reputation for being 'bullish' and I feel like I'm losing control. I need him to understand that if he's not nice to his peers then no-one will want to play with him.
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What 'punishment' do you use?
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maxos · 23/07/2009 18:39
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