My dd (age 5) is frankly the most hissy loser at times. She has to win at EVERYTHING. Forget playing snakes and ladders, the first time she even gets a lower roll of the die, the board is swept off the table in fury.
Even playing Pooh sticks is armageddon.
The problem is, she has inherited my stupendous sporting prowess (in otherwords she is doomed to always win a 'tried really hard' ribbon at sports day) and gets so distressed when other people beats her at running, or anything.
As kids her age seem to become more competitive, I am worried that this seems to be getting worse and is happening more often. She won't listen to the 'its fun just to take part' line.
She also gives up very quickly on things she can't do immediately in a fury.
Because I am asthmatic and cant be arsed to run, I remember being quite zen about losing things so this is a bit beyond my understanding. She is a lovely little girl otherwise and has so many good points. But it just seems like several tims a day this competitiveness is a problem in ways I often dont even predict.
Does anyone else have any help on this?
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What do I do about my DD being a terrible loser?
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MovingOutOfBlighty · 21/07/2009 09:10
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